“In the image of God”…and that before He put you in your “mother’s womb He knew you and ordained you..”
We can repeat them whenever and wherever but they are only words to you until you take time to discover YOU. Life is not magical and it is not unfair, we are simply given back in multiples what we put in; there’s no fast track. There are many things that make you special but you have to sit down and discover them for yourself.
Until you do, you will keep having that confidence issue, self-esteem issue and keep playing that pretend game with life.
Your best life is at the tip of your own finger, you just have to care enough to find it.